When you have a chronic illness and a small child I suppose it is inevitable that he may want to fix you. After all, you are not always a playful and fun mom. Most of the time you are pale, sweaty and achy mom. When Juan was about two years old he started "fixing" me. He would take his crayons and marbles, and press them in places that are achy or tender. He would use different colors and then take his crayons and make little "notes" on me. For some of the procedures I needed to close my eyes. He also put his hand on my throat, told me to close my eyes, then he would close his eyes and "fix' me for a few minutes.
While we were in Durban I bought him a doctor set. He doctored everyone, my mother, my father, me and everyone that would sit down and let him. He listened with his stethoscope, looked in our ears and throats, took our temperature and gave injections, pills and plasters. At night before he closed his eyes, he would say "Juan a doctor".
More recently he started saying "I want to go to the doctor" whenever he wanted to change the topic. I took him with me today because I feel like something the cat dragged in and he has had a cough for a few weeks but he has not been ill. He watched everything the doctor did quietly and carefully. After examination, the doctor gave him a cookie.
He looked the Doctor in the eye and said: " I am a doctor"
The Doctor looked him in the eye and said: "Wow, I am a doctor too!"
He then told me his mother was a radiographer at a hospital and he has been doctoring people since he was four years old.
Juan just smiled knowingly.
I've often wondered about people who know what they want to be all their lives and then go on to be just that.
I'm still not sure...